In a recent podcast, Mathira, a popular model and TV host from Karachi, has spoken candidly about marriage. The Pakistani celebrity highlighted the fears and concerns of many men when it comes to getting married. Mathira’s comments offer comfort and practical advice to people overwhelmed by societal pressures around marriage.
Life’s Purpose Beyond Marriage
According to Mathira, life is not just about getting married. She pointed out that if someone is not able to get married, they have not failed or lost their purpose in life. As she sees it, there is much more to living than what society traditionally celebrates as important milestones. Her statements urge individuals to think outside the box and seek purpose beyond marriage.
Societal Expectations And Pressures
Continuing this discussion, Mathira touched upon society’s expectations that often define success or happiness. She observed that modern-day societies tend to pressure people — especially men — to marry off at all costs. In her opinion, such demands can easily cloud other equally significant aspects of personal development and joyfulness.
For her understanding, telling life stories always following a straight line consisting of education first, then a career, followed by marriage later, does not provide enough options for growth. Males and Females are frequently expected alike to follow these rules even though doing so may not be appropriate given their circumstances or dreams.
Practical Advice For Men Who Want To Get Married
Mathira offered practical advice specifically geared towards men thinking about marrying someone soon: be financially stable before entering into wedlock! According to her assertion(s), it should be mandatory for all males contemplating marriage partnerships with ladies who cannot afford upkeep after childbearing to ensure they have built homes while running businesses already capable enough of feeding families comfortably, ensuring sustainable avenues leading to happier marriages.
In saying this, however, she implies that it is always better to become fully prepared beforehand rather than rushing blindly into anything else without proper groundwork having been laid first. This also applies generally across different spheres, including finance, management, skills acquisition, personal growth, etc.
Embracing A Holistic Approach To Life
This means looking at things differently from the traditional perspective. Whereby everything used to revolve around finding a partner and settling down. Raising kids until death does us part. Now we want more than one option here because none will make us happy forever anyway, so let’s try out careers, hobbies, travel, spirituality, self-love, etc. instead!
